A wedding lasts a day. A marriage lasts a lifetime. Are you ready for what comes after the cake?
Every couple dreams of a perfect wedding, but the real challenge begins the morning after. Too many couples walk down the aisle with stars in their eyes, only to crash into the hard realities of finances, in-laws, and unmet expectations.
Before You Say "I Do" is the gold standard in marriage preparation. Used by counselors and pastors for decades, this revised and expanded workbook is not just a book to read—it's a journey to take together. It is designed to help you and your future spouse build a rock-solid foundation before you tie the knot.
This isn't about changing your partner; it's about understanding them. It’s about uncovering the expectations, dreams, and potential deal-breakers that often get buried under the excitement of wedding planning.
Inside this comprehensive manual, you'll work through 13 essential chapters together, including:
What Is Marriage? Defining your covenant vs. a contract.
Uniqueness and Acceptance: Learning to love the differences that first attracted you.
Expectations: The 20-expectation exercise that reveals what you really expect from your spouse.
In-Laws or Outlaws: A 20-question guide to navigating family relationships.
Communication & Conflict: Discover your style and learn to "resolve" instead of "withdraw" or "win."
Finances: The "Shop-A-Holic" test, budget planning, and a money quiz to see how well you know each other's spending habits.
Sex in Marriage: A candid, biblical discussion to address fears, questions, and hopes for intimacy.
Your Spiritual Life Together: 24 questions to explore your faith history and build spiritual intimacy.
Packed with insightful questions, real-life examples, and space to write your answers, this workbook will help you:
Identify unhealthy reasons for marriage (rebound, escape, pressure).
Create a "Vision Statement" and set goals for your future.
Understand the three types of love your marriage needs: Eros, Philia, and Agape.
Plan your wedding together without losing your mind.
Don't leave the most important relationship of your life to chance. Build it with intention, wisdom, and God's guidance.
If you are engaged, seriously dating, or even thinking about marriage, this book is your must-have premarital counselor in your phone.
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